My bf doesn't want to use any *toys* in bed?

Even though it isn't shaped like a the "toys" seem to be for lack of better word ego buster. In his mind knowing that he would need help from a "toy" to bring out the big finale could make him feel "less of a man". Even if it isn't his fault. Guys like to know that they and only they are responsible for that super moment. If they not they may feel like they are just not good enough! There are some men who welcome the use of toys during those moments so I am not trying to put words in every ones mouth I am just speaking from my experience. If he isn't willing to use toys then I would suggest trying different positions or doing some "playing" with each other. Help him find that great position or spot because sometimes they just need a little guidance! Don't be afraid to tell him where to go! Good luck babes!